January 10, 2025 He’s starting to want to push me out of his circle of friendship…

He’s starting to want to push me out of his circle of friendship… Whenever those “two people” come to talk to me, or I initiate a conversation with him, he starts acting emo and says things like “whatever,” using manipulative words. Because something hurtful happened to him, he’s begun to resent those “two people.”

I know I’m being foolish. I know I can’t save him. This kind of thing has happened before. But I still don’t want to watch him spiral like this.

I admit that I just want someone I can rely on. In my current situation, I can’t go to where they are. They can’t come to me either, and I can’t talk about their situation.

If one day he leaves or pushes me out of this friendship, I don’t know if they’ll ever be willing to accept me again. What I fear the most… is ending up with nothing.

Conversation in Image 3: (To be honest, when you depended on me, I was genuinely happy— because it meant you truly needed me. But after some things happened, I felt like you no longer did. So I felt it was time to let go. I’m not just someone who exists to provide emotional feedback when you rely on me. So yes, I was happy. And I didn’t have to accommodate or wear a mask anymore. Alright, I’ll stop here. That’s it.)

Conversation in Image 4: (Me: If your computer has any issues, feel free to reach out to me anytime. Him: Please don’t be so kind to me anymore, thank you. Otherwise, I won’t be able to hold back.)

Later, we talked about a lot of things. I told him that the reason I chose to stay with him was because he’s one of the few people in VRC whom I can confide in and rely on. But he still said he’d help me find someone else I can open up to and lean on.

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